This page has been shared with you in confidence. Now that we can look forward to some time together, I feel that it’s essential to fill you in on a little more about both me and about our date.
If you are new to the world of professional companions this information will be especially useful to you. If you are well versed in our world, this list will probably be just what you're used to, but do have a scan, just in case.
Etiquette
Be you! I can't stress enough how important it is to just take a breath and relax if you're nervous before a first date. Remember that I get pre-date nerves too, and that it’s entirely human to get the jitters.
Presentation: There is no need whatsoever for you to be dressed to the nines. If you smell great, look after your nails and wear a smile, you've already discovered one of my greatest turn ons. I tend to dress smart-casual, of course for a good idea of what I wear, you can refer to my photo gallery. To a typical lunch date, think a form-fitting pencil skirt or silk trousers, a light blouse, a casual jacket and some heels. My wardrobe is typically high end: should you have any preference based on our dining location or activity please ask.
My assistant: Elizabeth will handle most correspondence before we meet, especially in the case of emails, logistics and with new dates. Elizabeth is incredibly efficient and attentive to detail, and all I ask is that you respect her just as much as you respect me. Beyond her sheer dedication to ensuring our date is arranged smoothly, I would contest that she is the most steadfast holder of secrets I’ve ever known, taking our privacy seriously to an unwavering degree. I’m incredibly lucky to have her on my team and I’ve no doubt that you’ll see why I feel this way by the time we meet.
Donations: Unless specified otherwise, do have any remaining or due donation ready in an envelope, left in obvious sight, with my name on it. If we are meeting in public, a small gift in a bag is an easy way of being discreet. To avoid any awkwardness this should be handled within the first 10 minutes of us meeting.
Gifts are not obligatory, but are of course adored. Do refer to my gifts and ideas page for inspiration!
Extending: In an ideal world we would have scheduled enough time in advance, however I’m always open to extending our date should we not be able to get enough of one another. Elizabeth will fill you in on the logistics of this when you get in touch.
Deposits/cancellations/lateness:
Deposits of 50-100% are required at my volition, depending on the type of date, or timing etc. This applies to new and existing clients
Cancellations may require up to a 100% cancellation fee.
If you are late, I plan for and offer a ten minute grace period. Beyond this, our booking together will need to end at the orignial and agreed up time we had planned for.
Travel: International trips require up to a 100% deposit, plus travel expenses. In instances where entry to the final destination may be prohibited (due to unforseen events such as travel bans, quarantine restrictions, denied entry etc.) the deposit (minus expenses) can be transferred to a subsequent booking but may not be refunded.
And a Little About Me…
Mutual respect: I only want to meet those who respect me just as I respect them. Whilst I am entirely sex positive I also demand respect for all the other parts of me that exist. Although I am a sensual being I am so much more than that. Partners who understand this are partners who allow us the opportunity to curate the best experiences. Reducing me solely to an object is something I find incredibly distasteful, and is not a quality that I tolerate.
My approach: I approach intimacy with something I feel is integral to any encounter with a friend: honesty and integrity. I want you to feel comfortable in my company and free of judgement.
Affection: I am completely comfortable with public displays of affection, within respectful boundaries. It is entirely down to you to instigate, but I do encourage our social interactions to be informed by tact. Feel free to hold my hand, to brush my hair behind my ear as we talk. A kiss is never out of the question, but I do recommend using discretion when approaching public displays of affection. We might not want to keep our hands off each other, but restraining ourselves is incredibly sexy. I told you, I’m traditional…
I adore a good foot rub
I’ve a lifelong commitment to being the little spoon, always.
FINAL POINTS…
No-gos: If you haven’t already guessed, I am incredibly open-minded, and adore discovering what turns us both on. That being said, something that I’ve never enjoyed is someone going down on me. Unusual I know, but it’s just not for me, and I don’t believe in faking things: I want to show up as my most authentic self with you. Don’t worry though, I can show you a whole host of other things I’d love you to do to me…
For the enthusiasts: On the above point, I’ve come to learn that there are some very giving and persistent people out there… ;) I promise you though, no matter how talented you are, or how much you love it (I do believe you!), it’s simply not for me.
The value of mutual pleasure: As someone who respects the integrity of authentic and mutual pleasure, I truly value your communicating of any things you’d rather us work around too. If we haven’t had chance to speak about this on our introductory call, please know it’s never too late to shoot me an email, or even tell me when we meet. The last thing I’d ever want to do is inadvertently make you even the slightest bit uncomfortable even for a second.
BDSM DATES
Whilst my calling is undoubtably that of companionship, I entered this world in a somewhat unconventional way: my roots are firmly planted in kink and BDSM - the taboo, the unknown and the untamed have always allured me. However, my early experiences of professional kink left me feeling that something was missing. As soon as I discovered the ground-breaking concept of intimate kink, I knew I’d cracked it. Never again would I try to make more clinical, mechanical experiences work for me. Rather, I found that incorporating kink practices along with companionship resulted in far more mind-expanding experiences than I ever could have considered.
With communication and trust being both easier and more established under these circumstances, I could truly be myself with dates, just as could they with me. It’s not all whips and chains; it is incredibly emotional, psychological and cerebral.
Within the safety of a true connection between us, we find space to reveal our deepest selves. Here, our encounters may range anywhere from pure fun and silliness, to a raw intensity, arising from some of the darkest corners of our minds.
I operate under a judgement free policy. Unearthing our deepest desires can feel terrifying, and believe me, I know. But if there has ever been a space for you to reveal these things, it is with me. What we do together is handled with the upmost discretion and is entirely private.
I love role-play and am more than open to any ideas you’ve been longing to try out.
Safe words will be discussed on the day. The traffic light system is also an approach I love!
Things that I love but only with guidance and gradual introductions: hair pulling, rough sex, humiliation and degradation. My request is that for any of these activities, we ease into them and most importantly, we confirm that we are comfortable with doing them before our date.
I’m a switch, meaning I love to both dominate and submit, as well as experimenting with both forms of power play simultaneously.
I do not engage in skin breaking or bruising of my skin.
Please do not spring something on me! For us to have a mutually great time, communication is key. Let’s talk about what you want to get up to before we meet, or over drinks when we do.
We can stop play at any time should anything become too intense for us.
I ensure that enough time is allocated after BDSM to wind down and discuss anything that may have come up for you during our date.